A House is Not a Home
A house is not a home. It is a respite. It is an escape. It is a place where celebrations occur. Relationships develop, families are formed, animals are raised, memories are made and love abides. I am a Realtor. I enjoy matching people with houses and being able to help others sell their property to build wealth or to move on to a new house to make new memories. What I love the most, however, is after the closing happens.
I am so fortunate that many, if not most, of my clients were either friends before or became friends during and after I helped them buy or sell their property. I get invited to events, holidays, and parties at their homes. I get to see their kids grow up. I celebrate birthdays, graduations, weddings and births with them. The house I helped them buy becomes so much more than four walls and a roof. It is where life is lived and memories are made. It is their home.
I tell you this because, yes, I love what I do and I truly believe I deliver a valuable service. The point is, buying a house doesn’t make a home. People make a home. Memories make a home. The house you buy will not make you happy. A house will not heal relationships and cure illness. It will not keep families together and cause rainbows to shine from its windows. What I do can facilitate the process of a new beginning. The house can be a foundation (no pun intended) to build on.
Put the emphasis on what’s truly important. Don’t worry if you don’t keep up with the Jones’s. The Jones’s may not have love and peace in their house. Take time to make memories and not be so concerned with competing and having the next best thing. A house is not a home, the people are. Value them and make lasting memories that will transcend those four walls.
Michelle Froedge is a residential Realtor and Principal Broker in the Greater Nashville and Williamson County areas of Tennessee. “Mom” to four-legged fur baby, Tyler, Auntie to Zelamie, she is a vegetarian and sings in her spare time. Michelle has lived in Nashville and Franklin since 1997 and has been selling homes since 2004.